“(some women flat out state that you must have a “good job, good looks, and a nice car” (those women are also what I call “shallow whores”)), and make it seem like the non-issue it really is.”
Jay, that may make them shallow, but no reason to shame them for their choices, especially since they are upfront about it. Wanting to date someone with a car does not make her a whore.
As to the OP, I know a couple of single car-free guys and they don’t even ride bikes. I’ve never heard about it causing them issues. Try to stick to looking for women who live near you and especially in the Oakland, Shadyside and other dense areas I wouldn’t think car-free would raise eyebrows much.