Yet no ones come forth to defend the auto and there choice to own one. Does anyone care to comment and quantify the benefits for me,please, you own a car WHY?
I came in at about the 60-posts point and have read every line of this thread. (And yes, the "you" below does not mean any particular person.)
Yes, I have a car. I live 10 miles north of the city, at the southern edge of a sprawling school district. It is not possible to go car-free in McCandless, as there is no grocery store within 0.7 miles, and sidewalks and shoulders do not exist. Any trip to a kid's school requires a car, period, as does any trip to a kid's friend's house.
Compare me to my nearest neighbors. I have one car for three drivers. Next door is two cars for two drivers. Next to them is four cars for three drivers. Next to them, two cars for two drivers. Across from them are about five vehicles for two drivers. Only the retired couple across the street has a single car.
Twenty years ago, I owned and drove four cars, maybe 60,000 miles a year. Once I had a chance to make transit work -- something I had never tried before as I'd never lived in a city -- I decided to rely on it. It worked. I had transit squarely in mind the next time I changed residences, and in time managed to rid myself of three of the cars, saving $10K/year in transportation costs.
I've been a one-car family for 16+ years, using public transit and more recently bicycles to get life done. How is it that I can make it with feet, bus and bicycles, while nobody else even tries? Because only I really care about: Traffic. Pollution. Carbon footprint. Total cost of ownership. Oil spills. Oil imports. And on and on and on. It never crosses their minds, while I am trying to minimize all of the above.
I may *have to* buy a second car. Why? Because I am between jobs, and my next gig may well be in a place that simply cannot be gotten to by anything else. Even Wexford, all of 4 miles away, is next to impossible to get to by anything but a car. One possibility is in West Virginia, another in Utah. I am not going to let the non-ownership of another car stand between me and a well paying job.
Transit commutes can really suck. Most of last year, I managed to get from McCandless to Moon by transit, mainly, and the typical trip to was 90 minutes, and from more like 150, but 3-hour trips home were not uncommon. Every single day. Scroll back through 11 months of tweets on @bus15237; it's all documented. Four-plus hours in motion, daily, on top of an 8-hour day. That, unfortunately, is reality, to get and hold a decent job, and intend to not get a car. I will not do that again. Yes, I could bike it, but 35 miles on the bike (90-120 minutes each way) was so physically exhausting, I could only do it every once in a while. I'm 52.
Bottom line, while I have a car, I try to use it as little as possible. I care. I want not to pollute, to increase our trade deficit, etc., but some use of the thing cannot be helped. I am living proof, though, that there is an alternative way of life, even in the suburbs.
I hope this answers your question.